The Ultimate Wedding Checklist: For Newly Engaged Couples
- Elegant Vows
- Oct 25, 2024
- 4 min read
Embarking on the journey of marriage is a thrilling and momentous occasion in anyone's life. Congratulations on your engagement! As you step into the realm of planning your dream wedding, it's natural to feel a mix of excitement and, perhaps, a touch of overwhelm. Fear not! To assist you in navigating this beautiful yet intricate process, we've curated the ultimate wedding checklist, designed to make your planning journey as seamless and enjoyable as possible.

Start Early, Stay Organised
The key to a successful wedding planning process lies in commencing early and maintaining a high level of organisation. This checklist aims to provide you with a structured approach, ensuring no stone is left unturned in the pursuit of your perfect day. From the initial stages of venue selection to the intricate details of the ceremony, each step is meticulously outlined to aid you in your planning endeavours.
First things first, don't panic! Even if you are behind our proposed timeline below, that's okay. Make a checklist and start from there.
The Celebrant's Role
Amidst the myriad of decisions to be made, one pivotal aspect often overlooked is the role of the celebrant. This individual plays a vital part in your wedding ceremony, not just by officiating but by guiding and supporting you throughout the planning phase. From crafting personalized vows to incorporating unique rituals, the celebrant's expertise can transform your ceremony into a deeply meaningful and memorable experience.
Timelines and Tips
To further alleviate the stress associated with wedding planning, our checklist includes timelines and practical tips. These guidelines serve as a roadmap, ensuring you're on track with essential tasks and milestones. Delve into insights on when to send out invitations, booking vendors, finalizing the menu, and more. Additionally, invaluable tips gleaned from experienced wedding planners and couples can be found within these pages, offering wisdom to navigate potential challenges and enhance your overall planning journey.
As you embark on this enchanting journey towards your special day, remember that this checklist is not merely a to-do list, but a companion to guide you through the intricate yet joyous process of planning a wedding. Embrace each step with enthusiasm and cherish the moments spent envisioning your dream celebration. With early planning, organized execution, and the support of your celebrant and loved ones, your wedding day will unfold seamlessly, allowing you to relish every precious moment.
In closing, take a deep breath, enjoy the process, and savour the anticipation of your union. Your dream wedding is within reach, and this checklist is your steadfast companion to help you make it a reality. Cheers to the beautiful adventure ahead and to the love that binds it all together!
Have a look at the timeline below
12-18 Months Before the Wedding:
Set the Date: Choose a wedding date that works for both you and your partner.
Create a Budget: Establish a realistic budget that aligns with your vision for the wedding.
Start Researching: Begin researching and visiting potential venues.
Hire Key Vendors: Book your officiant, venue, photographer, and caterer.
Draft the Guest List: Start outlining your guest list to estimate the number of attendees.
Consider Wedding Insurance: Look into wedding insurance options to protect against unforeseen circumstances.
Begin Bridal/Groom Attire Search: Start exploring wedding attire options for both the bride and groom.
8-12 Months Before:
Finalize Venue and Vendors: Confirm bookings with your chosen venue and vendors.
Choose Bridal Party: Ask friends and family to be part of your bridal party.
Order Save-the-Dates: Design and order save-the-date cards to notify guests.
Research Accommodations: Look into accommodation options for out-of-town guests.
Begin Registry: Start compiling your wedding registry.
Plan Transportation: Arrange transportation for the wedding day.
Start Planning Honeymoon: Begin researching and planning your honeymoon.
6-8 Months Before:
Select and Order Invitations: Design and order your wedding invitations.
Finalise Menu: Decide on the wedding menu with your caterer.
Book Entertainment: Book musicians, DJ, or entertainment for the reception.
Plan Rehearsal Dinner: Start planning the rehearsal dinner.
Choose Wedding Rings: Shop for and purchase wedding bands.
Arrange Officiant Meetings: Meet with your celebrant to plan the ceremony - we will schedule these with you.
Shop for Bridal Party Attire: Begin shopping for bridesmaid dresses and groomsmen attire.
4-6 Months Before:
Send Invitations: Send out wedding invitations.
Plan Ceremony Details: Finalise ceremony readings, vows, and any rituals.
Hair and Makeup Trials: Schedule hair and makeup trials for the wedding day.
Organise Marriage License: Obtain necessary paperwork for the marriage license.
Order Wedding Cake: Finalise cake details with the baker and place your order.
Schedule Pre-Wedding Events: Plan bridal shower and bachelor/bachelorette parties.
Purchase Wedding Favours/Gifts: Decide on and purchase wedding favours and gifts for guests and the bridal party.
2-4 Months Before:
Finalise Details: Confirm details with vendors and the venue.
Create Seating Plan: Plan the seating arrangements for the reception.
Send Final Guest Count: Provide the final guest count to vendors.
Write Vows and Speeches: Begin drafting wedding vows and speeches - we can help you with this!
Confirm Honeymoon Plans: Confirm reservations and plans for your honeymoon.
Final Dress Fitting: Schedule and attend your final dress fitting.
1 Month Before:
Finalize Timeline: Create a detailed wedding day timeline.
Confirm with Vendors: Confirm all details with vendors and the venue.
Pick Up Rings: Ensure wedding bands are ready for the big day.
Attend Final Fittings: Attend final fittings for bridal party attire.
Prepare Wedding Day Emergency Kit: Assemble an emergency kit with essentials.
Break in Shoes: Break in your wedding shoes to ensure comfort.
Finalise Payments: Prepare and organise final payments for vendors.
1-2 Weeks Before:
Finalise Details with Venue: Confirm details and finalise arrangements with the venue.
Confirm RSVPs: Reach out to guests who haven’t RSVP’d.
Confirm Timeline with Vendors: Reconfirm the wedding day timeline with vendors.
Pack for Honeymoon: Pack for your honeymoon and confirm travel details.
Confirm Wedding Party Roles: Review roles and responsibilities with the wedding party.
Confirm Rehearsal Dinner Details: Finalise details for the rehearsal dinner.
Get Plenty of Rest: Ensure you get enough rest and relaxation before the big day.
Wedding Day:
Enjoy the Moment: Embrace the joy and love of your special day.
Get Married: Cherish and celebrate your union with loved ones.
Take Photos: Capture beautiful memories throughout the day.
Celebrate: Dance, eat, and enjoy the celebration of your marriage.
Remember, this checklist is adaptable. Feel free to customise it according to your specific needs and preferences.
